ive been up til odd hours these days.Not as if im having a holiday or slacking away.Actually im juggling work and school.Being wide awake at such hours(its 4.38 am ) is not what im suppose to be doing.
I am actually hoping tt i will fall asleep in the middle of this entry.I guess i m suffering from a weird case if insomnia.
SO ..lately i hv been having debates with a friend who is dating a married man.I know, i shouldnt judge cos im not morally perfect myself blablabla.. but no matter how smart you are, tts gotta be stupid isnt it? I mean 2 kids.Unless of cos, shes looking for an 'instant family".
What a way to degrade yourself. Its really tragic. Its a classic case of good girl gone bad, i should say.OR arrogance. That is when an individual thinks that she/he has an abundance of intelligence and knowledge tt he/she can defy anything and everything.

A good sign of that will be :

1.Blaming and degrading the other party(namely, the bf's wife)
2.using impressive words or phrases hoping to shut us up(like 'societal norms' 'sovereignity' )
3.defensive , rebutting every point with the very same point used in the last argument by rephrasing and elaborating
4.denial and generalisation: "most 3rd parties are sluts , im certainly not so my situation is diff"
"most 3rd parties are minahs" "most 3rd parties are lonely but i can go on well "

my dear, you are shooting at your own foot.so please wise up.
nobody is perfect. But nobody is so blind/dumb to CHOOSE tt path either.

To betray you must first belong.
Harold Philby