Not the maker of plans and promises, but rather the one who offers faithful service in small matters. This is the person who is most likely to achieve what is good and lasting. ~Johann Wolfgang von Goethe




Promises.When it links with hope, is an ugly profanity. I once said, i 'll never make a promise because i can never really know if i can fulfil it. Even if i do, how well?
Promises to me are risks.You put yourself on the line once you give your word.Yet, it seems that i have to take so much risks when there is really no need at all. Sometimes, promises are unattainable goals SET by another just for the purpose of comfort.

All promise outruns performance. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

Sometimes, promises are set by another without considering the promisee's capability , wants or even feelings.

A sincere promise is always set by oneself.

Its mind over matter.not matter over mind.

A promise should be made without force but with will.